Love is an absolute... Either you do or you don't.. Just as someone cannot be moderately dead or half alive, one cannot be semi-loved.. This occurred to me when I realized I had to let my best friend go.  I want to continue to love her but if she stays in my life I fear the love will be lost. You let things go when you love them because you understand it's for the greater good...

First, I had to give my cat back to the Last Stop Rescue people.  I didn't realize there was a lesson in my saying ...
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It has become painfully clear to me that I am in no position to give relationship advice. Well-- Now I am.. But I was giving it before and I shouldn't have been. You see, I have been in a relationship that's not a relationship with about 3 guys... All claiming to love me in one way or another but the heart wrenching truth is none of them loved me... Or ever will.

My... STUPID self, decided that all I wanted was the truth. I was done playing the desperate side kick, lurking for left ov...
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